Im not happy with my work and my life i want a change.
Life is boring man, this is not good. we should do something new.
you hear such things very often in our lives and from many we meet.
The biggest secret in this world is the known fact that a strong majority of the people are unhappy with the way things are going in their life.
Life is boring man, this is not good. we should do something new.
you hear such things very often in our lives and from many we meet.
The biggest secret in this world is the known fact that a strong majority of the people are unhappy with the way things are going in their life.
For some it might be not being in peace terms with their boss and work environment.
For some it might be because of their unorganized way of life and finances.
For some it just might be they are not contented with their way of life.
For others it might be any other thing like not being able to spend time on their hobby, not earning enough or want more money for expenses they want to spend on, or they might just want to spend time lazily on their bed and just able to- pertaining to many different reasons.
The reason differs with each and every individual, but what remains connected all of them is that they want a change in the present way of their life.
Vijay Kumar is an IT engineer working for a leading global MNC, very successful in his career , holding a high designation and drawing a salary bigger than any of his friends.
But he is not happy with his routine, and wants to have a life free of these pressures and looking for a chilled life with his finances and income intact.
Every morning he gets up completes his daily routine and regrets for still having the same lifestyle and moves on with his life getting busy with work and goes to sleep carrying the same regret.
Kiran is an aspiring youngster wanted to become big in life with many dreams and aspirations.
Knows what he wants to become and makes a blue print and road map of how to reach there. He looks at it every morning. Works on it to get it any better everyday and update with any new information and better replacements.
He reads it before sleeping with a positive hope and belief that it would become a reality and the cycle goes on.
But what must be noted is that both of their lives remain the same and continue being the same with one carrying the regret and the other having the hope for a better tomorrow.
The IT employee wants to bring on a change in life but doesn't make any actions and plans towards it and not even knows or decided what we wants to get or become.
It is just like a wooden plank floating in the sea, it just moves which ever way the waves take it.
The youngster knows what he wants in life, has a plan on how to reach there but doesn't put it into actions, and the result is same as the other guy.
Having an Idea and not putting into action is as good as not having the idea.
The secret ingredient to change your life for good to anything is to have a start.
The Newton's laws, the first law says any object in rest stays in the state of rest unless some external force is acted upon it.
The same applies in life. No matter how good intentions you have. They remain non-existent in reality until you start working on it.
Just start. Don't waste time judging and weighing your options and trying to make a project report.
It is okay to make mistakes. RELAX. Over the course of th journey, you try different things and learn from the failures.
This is something even the most successful CEOs keep shouting every time they give a speech. Steve jobs, Billgates, Sundar Pichai, Jeff Bezos.... who hasn't??
Dont be over ambitious.
No human has ever started running right after the birth. We learned how to crawl, then walk and then we started going beyond leaps and bounds. Same goes everytime.
Start doing something even when it's small.
It might be starting to write a dairy, going for walks, learning a new hobbie,... Let it be anything. Over the time it will lead to your course ( if not it'll lead you to a new one).
When you step out on to the road without a destination you will eventually find out a place to go. The same applies here.
Don't fall for procrastination and lethargicness.
It's a human psychological tendency that human brain is against a change. As it gets comfortable to a routine over a period of time.
When it gets disrupted it has to be rewired.
You can feel it when you're moving to a new place, moving to a new school , moving to a new college. Some have the natural tendency to get disconnect and adapt easily and some may not. But just be conscious and take the step.
