so called life......

Love nd Life as defined as one of my frnd...!!!!!

Four years ago, In during my graduation first year... 
a guy proposed me! 
He promised me so many things that I could say "yes, I Love you too!"...
it was a tender teenage i.e., just sweetest 18 year old was I! 
Though I didn't accept his proposal, I had a soft corner for him that I never showed out!
One thing I thought was, if this boy has same feelings for me even after 3 years i.e., till the final year of my graduation, then I would accept his proposal and take this relationship for my whole life! 
Slowly... 
2 years passed, then came my final year! 
Now we are all young, but not teenagers, mind is matured, personality has developed and we are graduates! 
The person who Loved me 3 years back had no feelings towards me! So many things have changed..!

During my final year graduation days, I asked him once "do you have the same feelings which you expressed when I was 18?"...and he just smiled and replied 
".. Priorities have changed in my life, now my priority is definitely not you…!"

I said that it was not the answer for my question..and I repeated my question again "do you have the same feelings towards me..? Do you still Love me...?!"

He replied "Love remains the same...but it's not going to turn into a relation due to various reasons like caste, family, etc...!"

These words left my heart broken and confused...! I started  thinking little practically about my life from then!

On our completion of graduation, whole class organized a farewell sort of party! Party lasted till late evening...! Everyone hugged each other and wished good luck for their futures! This person came to me..gave a gentle shake hand and said these words..."you'll definitely get a Lovely person as your soul mate... And it's not me...!" Then he moved away!

I was thinking that he will never even know that since the day he proposed me, I had all my dreams about him to be my soul mate for my so called life! Story would have been
different if I had accepted his proposal of so called Love in my very first year of Graduation!

Loveliest thing in this world I guess is being Loved by some one from whom we expect! After all who don't Love to be pampered and cared from the Loved one?!

Few words from the bottom of my heart are... Some dreams remain as dreams in this so called life...! 
Isn't there a full stop to this so called Love that arises in every person's teenage life..?! 
Why it hurts and doesn't leave us alone..?! Why does it last forever...?!
Well...some questions are always unanswered as we all know that though life ends, Love doesn't...don't know why!!!
But still..one always rejoices him/herself in this Love, be it of pain or pleasure! 
The happiness one attains being in it is unexplainable!

Finally... Though everything seems unclear in this journey, there is nothing lost or wasted in this life!!!

friends...!!

Friends occupy a major part in our life...

They meet as strangers... get close day by day....

Become friends in a short time....

they may not of ur caste, religion, nationality.....

But u share evry thing wid dem....

They become a part of most of ur memories... sweet or bitter... 

U never want to miss dem....

They are friends....

Its true that... a person cannot live without a friend to share his life....

people travel far... but relations remain close....

friends move apart... but friendship remains the same...

U may be far apart on the globe...

but they still remember ur memories...

Im proud to say that i have friends that help me when i need them....

They pat ur back when u achieve...

They share ur joys nd sorrows...

They  boost u up when u are low...

They give u confidence that there is someone caring for u.. 

An incident in my life that taught me the importance of friendship .....


When one of my frnd's father met with an accident...
he was injured severely.. that he was kespt on artificial breathing...
doctor said that it would cost about 5 lakhs to get him operated...
we friends were dong our utmost efforts to collect money...
but his relatives werent intrested about it....
they wanted to shift him to another hospital for some financial reasons...
all of them disappeared when the ambulance started... but only we friends stayed with them all the time...

im proud to hav such a friends in my life....
they may be scattered all across the globe... but our friendship remains the same....

this one is for all my friends.. who have made my life colourfull... and been a part of my memories.... love ya all..... <3

I pen down the secrets only to feel U

p.s: the content in this post is written by my friend Ashwini Joshi....

I'm shy I'm delicate like rain wet flower.. I'm a girl! 
I may look strong 
But as soon as I hear Ur gruff voice I melt down like a cloud! 

I may not know the art of making Love 
But let U know that I am here for U waiting like wish star 
which few lucky God's Angels can catch..! 

O my baby.. 
I pen down my secrets only to make U know that beautiful things start from the heart of dreams.......! :) :) :)

Things of Universe go dim whenever I think of U being in me..! 
At the sound of Ur name a strange awe fell on me..!! 

I understand life is so short yet my Love is too long. ..!!! 

Yeah I have feelings so pure so eternal.. 
Yet I don't express..!!!! 
Oh God show the flag of truce to my heart which is silently bleeding..!!!!! 

freedom

Freedom is not when u say U hav it...

Freedom is when u feel u hav it...

Freedom is not about doing the good thing..

Freedom is about doing the right thing...

You may live happily without any thing,

But you are never happy with this thing..

turth in lies...!!!

 lies - the most powerful words.. that can build empires nd can demolish those empires.... 

many people say "I hate liars".... 

       


     but....
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    what do you know about the lies?


- 81% of people speak "harmless lies" every day

- Most people lie 3 times in 10 minutes of conversation

- Following a review of 142 studies, during which 19,801 people (many of whom had experience lies in the recognition of his work) was assessed, lying or not 2,945 people, lies gently was recognized only 54% of cases, only slightly more than 50% that you can dial simply by guessing "yes-no

- 2% of people think that lying is sometimes necessary

- 65% of people think that often / sometimes OK to lie to not hurt someone's feelings

- 44% of people think that often / sometimes possible to exaggerate the events in the story to make it interesting

- 37% of people think that often / sometimes you can lie about his age

- Depressive people are more honest with themselves than the mentally healthy, and when they recover, they become less fair

- 98% of teens say they lie to their parents

- 98% of teens say that trust is very important in personal relationships. 96-98% say that lying is immoral

- 47% of teens say that illegal downloading of music is acceptable, and only 5% considered acceptable stealing from shop

- During the experiment, 32 young people were divided into 2 groups - high and low social status, based on their activity, reported by the parents. Children of high social level lie better. Teens lie better than younger

- 75% of students admit that they become "serial liars * when it comes to saving money or a job

- 40% of parents believe that is normal sometimes lie to children about their own bad behavior in the past

- 68% of women lie about their weight, when the rent on the right

- 91% of women say that the older they become, the easier take themselves, and the lower lying

- 44% of people easier to lie by e-mail, than in manuscript form. During the study, 48 students had to divide $ 89 between themselves and another fictional one group that did not know about the amount of money, but I knew that it varies between $ 5-100 and should decide to accept the proposal or not. When students reported the amount of e-mail, 92% lied when handwritten - 64%

- 15% of employees were caught in a lie directly in the workplace

- 16% of people ever lied to justify "I call on another line" or "I call you back"

- According to the experiment conducted in Australia, 73% of doctors said that washed his hands, and only 9% actually did so;

- 29% of people who are in close relations, acknowledged that lie to their partners about their spending money

- 33% of women lie about their spending money, as well as 26% of men

- 1 out of 10 people had lied during the motor to reduce the contribution

- 15% of people vozrata 18-20 years admit they were wrong to their partners, 11% aged 21-24 years are recognized in the same

- 22% of men say they do not want to call their number of sexual partners

- 17% of men and women aged 18-24 years reported to their sexual partner about the presence of host of sexually transmitted diseases

- 61% of women think that is normal if a man is lying about their appearance

- 26% of men and 9% of women believe adultery to be justified, if their partner is no longer interested in sex

- Betrayal in varying degrees, is the cause of 54% of divorces

- 48% of women say that is normal, when their partner is lying about his attraction to other women

- 39% of women say that is normal when a man is lying about the woman that if she was good in bed

A coin has two sides.. so as every thing...

It depends on how u use it... dont label ny thing as good or bad... 

There is nothing like good or bad... It is what u feel right or wrong...